Thursday, May 28, 2009

About Me?

I'm sitting here having some thoughts as I update my blog and figured I would just WRITE them out. Every social networking site like Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, and Blogger has a section that allows people to write a little bit about themselves. Something I guess will help viewers and friends get to know or understand the person better. This "About Me" section is often carefully crafted, and trust I have seen many of which I SMH at and others which seem sincere and random. Whenever I see this section I hesitate and leave the whole space BLANK. Why you ask? I think some people think that when someone's about me section is left blank that person just doesn't want others to know anything about them. WHICH IS TRUE! But I'll tell you why I feel there is no need to fill in this section.

Americans love to talk about themselves! There's nothing more gratifying than to be sitting with friends at a dinner table and talk about your accomplishments, the things you have, what you want to do or have done. BLAH! To me it's all bullshit and I think our society is full of it. Selling yourself is one the easiest things you can do. When you go on an interview you try to be at your best and you try to sell to the future employer why you will be the best candidate for the position. You feel you need to present yourself like the best possible person, and you work at trying to achieve this. And this is exactly what I don't want to do.

Because the truth is I am not perfect, no one is! Nothing I can say to you in an about me section or display in a bunch of pictures will ever make you understand me or my life completely, it's more complex then you think. Like they say, "You may see my glory, but you don't know my story."

Social networking sites are killing the way we communicate with each other. I simply can not stand it or deal with it so I try my best to stay away from it. What happened to an old fashion phone call just to say hello. Now people just go on Facebook and write on your wall, and if you don't respond it's rude, or your just not up to date with how the whole social networking works. I don't care for looking at a million pictures of people doing foolishness and being befriending as if the person actually cares ABOUT MY ABOUT ME. I need more substance. The hope is that people would like to get to know each other on a much deeper level than just through the computer screen. It's just my opinion though........

Friday, May 22, 2009



As I was browsing through highsnobette.com I stumbled upon this image of a gladiator inspired shoe made by Nike. Initially, I thought the idea was appealing since right now gladiator sandals are a major hit for the ladies. After a careful eye I have come to the conclusion that this was a complete MISS for Nike...WOMP WOMP. I would not rock these no matter how 'unique' they are, and I say that because people think they can get away with stuff because it's different. No matter what though, a spade is a spade, and I will call it how I see it. It's just my opinion though...


Wednesday, May 13, 2009



Gangsta Bitches




Cartoons are the 'ish! Sometimes a deviation from all the nonsense that is on television is neccesary. This is where cartoons come in. For people like myself who have a very short attention span, cartoons will take care of that. Cartoons pack a punch with humor, sound, and visual. I especially love watching cartoons because of the colors. Some of the colors that are put together by the artist inspire me when I try to put things together creatively. I have friends who will only watch cartoons, and I have to say they are some of the coolest people I know. It's something about cartoons that allows the kid in you to come out once in awhile that I definitely love.


Sunday, May 10, 2009

kanYe West : Blog : RYAN LESLIE - RTGERS IN THE RAIN

kanYe West : Blog : RYAN LESLIE - RUTGERS IN THE RAIN

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This is what you call dedication and genuinely loving what you do. I've been telling people about this man for a while now, and though many are skeptical, none can deny the overall musical talent and energy that this man brings. Not to mention, he is a Harvard graduate and decided out of all things that music would be his career. Ryan Leslie is an inspiration to me too bad I was not there to see his performance. Here it is.

Friday, May 8, 2009

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Weekend Recap






On Friday May 1st, N.E.R.D (No.One.Ever.Really.Dies) performed in the pouring rain at Rutgers University's Rutgersfest. Tons of soaking wet students watched as the band tore it down and played some of their most popular songs. For anyone who wasn't there, go jump off a bridge for missing one of the best performances and one of the best times at Rutgers! Rutgersfest was a zoo!! I def. enjoyed myself....